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How Judgment Impedes Neutrality

May 14, 2021
One of the most important skills a healer or coach can possess is that of neutrality. Neutrality relies on balance and it cannot be achieved if there is judgment present. Judgment occurs when you have not removed your sense of self from the equation. You cannot serve your client while holding judgment as it clouds your ability to offer compassion. It prevents you from recognizing your client’s emotions and feelings which impedes the healing process. So, what is neutrality and how can you obtain it?

What is neutrality? Neutrality is the zone of nothingness. It is the middle of balance. It is free of judgment and full of compassion. It is the ability to focus completely on a client’s emotions and feelings whilst not engaging with your own. When you are able to release your judgments and obtain neutrality, you will truly meet your client’s needs. 

How can you obtain neutrality? Take a deep breath and get grounded (move energy down below the navel). Acknowledge that your judgment is preventing you from reaching a state of neutrality. You need to identify the prevalent emotions or feelings and resolve them. This can be accomplished by surrounding yourself with nature and meditating. Focus on feeling the healing energy while you release the emotions that are hindering you. You can also try tying your feeler fibers (long arms and fingers stretched out in front of you) and imagine that you are wrapping them around you and then tying them off. This will keep you out of someone else’s energy field. This is very important for the empathic healer or coach. Recognize that you can always take time out in the moment and then begin again. If this is a bigger challenge than you may have to reschedule and address this concern with another therapist. 
 
Your intuition will be affected by these energy challenges if you do not place awareness of what our energetic defenses are trying to convey. You will gain more confidence in your practice once you have a clear channel to interpret the information.

Ki Lifestyle Solutions offers many services. If you would like further information about our services, or if you have any questions, please contact Carell directly via email at carell@kilifestyle.ca or via our website at kilifestyle.ca/contact. Inspire, Heal, Grow! Namaste!

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